Question: is your church feminized?
Test: Can your pastor preach on Ephesians 5:22 without first having to apologize or give some other sort of “trigger warning”
“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord”
The superficial answer is yes, your church is feminized if your pastor has to roll over and ask for his belly rub approval from the women in attendance before preaching this vital scripture. In reality many churches today will not preach this scripture. You will hear many mentions of Ephesians 5:25 “Husbands , love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her”, but most churches pretend that the preceding scripture simply does not exist
However, the actual correct answer to the question is that if your pastor or church even feels the need to preach on Ephesians 5:22 it is at least partially feminized. So the question then becomes “what must I do?”. There are two answers. The first is that you can take action. Find like-minded men and women, have meetings, and work to create a culture that honors God’s design for families. This can be challenging. Do not even attempt this without first reading Vox Day’s book SJW’s Always Lie.
Buy it, read it, pass it around, take notes. Formulate a plan. Because you will find vicious resistance from the embedded SJWs in your church, and you will see people who you once thought to be kind, loving Christians expose themselves as outright liars and deceivers of the worst kind. Do not be surprised if you get accused of beating your wife, cheating, stealing, or molesting kids. Yes, it can get that bad. Some of the Men of The West are doing this. They are fighting the evil from within.
The other option is to leave your church for a more traditional church where this isn’t even an issue. But leaving your established church family can be challenging in itself. It can cause great harm in its own ways. You will lose friends. You may even be alienated from family. And finding such a church within close proximity may prove impossible. There are other Men of the West who chose this route.
Unfortunately there is no easy or right choice here. You have to search your soul. Pray and ask for guidance.